Hey BoneBoy,
I'm in a similar situation, and the programs I've called have been giving me responses like "we will consider you," "it shouldn't count against you..." And to my question of whether prelims have matched in the past, only a handful have said "it's happened," while most say they (obviously) get prelim applicants or others applying the 2nd time around. In short, not much concrete info, but it's not totally discouraging.
Have you gotten any info worth sharing? Sucks that no one has replied in this thread...
Good luck!