I always enjoy the debate on whether a 90lb female can do ortho. Here is what I told rotators who asked me the same question.
There are many different aspects of ortho. And just like a small framed woman may have a difficult time reducing an obese patient's dislocated hip, don't you think the 6'5" 250lbs linebacker is going to have a tough time doing the trigger finger release or flexor tendon repair? Or operating the small controls during an arthroscopy? Trust me, I have seen my fair share of meatheads during an arthroscopy with their hands fumbling around like they're back at 8th grade prom. Sausage digits and scopes don't mix. It's hilarious.
Everyone will have a better/worse time with different aspects of ortho. You just have to make the best of it, and then ultimately when it comes time to choose what you want to focus on, you steer away from your problem area. Children cry when they look at me, so I steered away from Peds. Go into ortho, let the system work, and you will find your place.
Never forget what a great man once said:
"I'm going to give you a little advice. There's a force in the universe that makes things happen. And all you have to do is get in touch with it, stop thinking, let things happen, and be the ball."
KJ