Please don't say anyone sounds ridiculous.. that's just a rude, offensive comment.
I'm simply commenting on the psychology of it all and how whatever happens in these rank meetings, goes down to splitting of hairs, and if you don't think med school is one of those hairs, then you're mistaken.
Matching involves a lot of factors, and everything counts for something.. I don't think it's unfair for me to say that I feel had I gone to a better school, it may have tipped my rank 1 or 2 spots in the upward direction at a variety of places, and that may have allowed me to match. You want to have the best positioning as possible, and guess what, where you went to school counts.
And by saying that, doesn't discount that my actions may have contributed to not matching..Perhaps had I worked harder doing X Y Z, or done this on X rotation I would have matched...
And mind you, I also pointed out that *I* made the choice to goto the state school. Hence, I was said it was *my* choice that contributed to that, and was an intrinsic factor, in that sense.
It's the total package.. everything helps.
You can blame yourself, you can blame others, whatever, but in the end, it's a combination of a lot of things.. and of course, you're also forgetting that you may have not been a 'match' or someone was a better match. In that case, was it something you did that made you less of a match, or something you didn't do, or something someone else did? Can you really account for everything in yourself? No, absolutely not.
I matched at a place I interviewed at last year. so what was it? Did I look better as a candidate this year? Did the other candidates like another place more? Or, perhaps I just was lucky enough to interview with people that jived with me?
At the end of the day, a good part of this process is outside of your control, I'm sorry, it is.
And a little bit of advice my rude friend: Unfortunately, a good part of life is often outside of your control. You can't control everything, and that includes the match. It's difficult to grasp, and I've struggled, and continue to struggle with that my whole life. Sometimes things just happen, and it's what you do with it that counts, not the fact that it happened.