IMO, the "don't call us, we'll call you" line is complete and utter BS. Most of us end up applying to several aways for each given block/rotation that we want to use for an ortho rotation. Personally, I contacted each "contact person" (usually the residency program coordinator) for the medical student aways that I applied to because each web site is lacking in something, and it doesn't hurt to ask a question (thereby also introducing yourself and letting them know that you're interested). I found that most coordinators were more than willing to help. I also contacted them to let them know that I had mailed out the complete packet, and gave it 7-10 days before shooting them another e-mail to confirm that it had arrived. After that, it's out of your hands.
So my suggestions... give them a call or shoot them an e-mail. It doesn't hurt to let them know your interested and that you're trying all that you can to make a successful connection with their program. Also, please confirm that they receive your packet and that all documentation is complete and present. Lastly, do yourself a big favor and contact those programs that you applied to, but won't be accepting, to withdraw or cancel your application. Believe me, these people remember who you are when it comes application time.
Case-in-point: I applied to one program for an away, but was blocked by home students filling the slots during my requested blocks. The residency coordinator literally contacted me every week to update me and let me know that she was still trying to get me a slot. Finally, it didn't happen. When I applied to the residency program, I didn't get an interview either. But aside from that, and in addition to the nice pre-written "we're sorry" letter from the program, the coordinator wrote to me to offer her personal regret that I wouldn't be making to trip to interview and said that - after reviewing my application - she couldn't imagine why I was turned down. I know that doesn't go very far, but it did do a little to make me feel better and not like a completely hopeless ortho candidate (it was early in the season and I hadn't heard back from many others yet). End of the story, I got several interviews at some top/competitive programs and am eagerly awaiting the 16th.