I writing as a female resident from Stony Brook to hopefully let any other females looking for programs know that our program is not as bad as it was recently made out to be. I am very sorry YOP that you got the impression you did, because i think it was pretty misrepresentative of our program. We have 4 women now...one 3rd year, one 2nd year, and 2 interns and while i am only an intern, my experience with the ortho dept has been nothing but a positive one.
I think that Stony Brook's reputation has come partly because there have been several women who have left the program in recent years... but if you look at the individual situations, many were personal decisions that involved wanting to be closer to significant others or simply not wanting the surgical lifestyle.
I think that in any program you go to...there is always going to be someone, some resident or attending, who thinks that women don't belong in orthopaedics. It is still a male dominated field, and while i think it is great that more and more women are entering, prejudices and opinions do not change overnight. Even when I was interviewing, I had one fellow interviewee tell me that someone at one program told her females "dilute" the applicant pool because we don't have to be as qualified as the guys. Honestly that last thing i would want is someone telling me i got my spot because i am female and not because i was a qualified applicant who they thought would fit well into their program.
That being said, I think some quailities you could look for in a program are female attendings (of which Stony Brook has one) and willingness to take female residents (not just the "token" female once every few years). Stony Brook took 2 females my year and 2 the year before, though one left after internship for geographic and lifestyle reasons.
Anyway, I'm just trying to give a realistic view of the situation. yes, there are some programs that took a majority of females last year (UChicago 3/4 and Arizona 2/3, both of which i have med school classmates at), but I wouldn't expect those same schools to repeat this year. the applicant pool is still only a small percentage female so if you look at the odds, they are very slim.
If anyone has questions about Stony Brook or otherwise, please ask me. We are not a hostile or malignant program...the other residents are great and the attendings that i have worked with this far have been fantastic, so I hope that one person's opinion will not dissuade others from looking into Stony Brook.